The Boys & Girls Club of the Coastside

Parent Teacher conferences can be a stressful time for many families. You may be feeling nervous, but remember that many teachers are just as nervous as you are. They need to tell you about your child in a very short time. Also remember that what you have to say is just as important as what the teacher has to say. The purpose of the conference is to SHARE information about your child so that the teacher can do their best job. You know your child best so plan on sharing your child's strengths, talents,  interests, and motivations for learning.

Before the conference:
*Ask your child what they want you to talk about.

*Decide whether or not to disclose any family problems that may affect your child's progress. ( if your child has health problems, share them)

*Write down any questions you have ahead of time, prioritize your list in case time runs short.

*Plan to leave a card for the teacher containing your home and work numbers

During the Conference:

*Listen carefully and write down questions you have while they are talking

*Tell the teacher the things about your child you want him/her to know

*Ask your questions

*Find out if there are any problems, and brainstorm ways to work together.

*Sharing and working together is what conferences are all about, and remember to share the information with your child.


adopted from Evelyn Petersen, ParentTalk Newsletter